Consent
Family mashwara de sakti hai magar dhamki ya pressure se shadi karwana genuine consent nahin.
Mahr aur planning
Mahr, expenses, housing, job aur family expectations shadi se pehle discuss hon.
Husn-e-sulook
Quran 4:19 kindness ki taleem deta hai. Specific dispute mein reliable scholar aur lawyer se guidance leni chahiye.
Arranged aur forced marriage mein farq
Family kisi rishtay ka mashwara de sakti hai, magar kisi ko dhamki ya dabao se “haan” kehne par majboor karna alag baat hai. Sahih Bukhari 5136 mein shadi se pehle aurat ki ijazat poochne ka zikr hai. Jahan dhamki, beizzati ya ghar se nikalnay ka khauf ho, wahan genuine consent par sawal uthta hai.
Shadi se pehle baat karein
Taleem, job, rehna kahan hai, mahr, income, bachay, care work aur larai-jhagra hal karne ka tareeqa discuss karein. Ye be-aitemadi nahin, achhi planning hai. Quran 4:19 mein marriage mein achhay sulook ka usool diya gaya hai.
Agar zabardasti ka khatra ho
Victim ko tanha confrontation ke liye na kahein. Qualified legal aid ya trusted protection service se confidential madad lein. Pakistan Ministry of Human Rights 1099 helpline list karti hai; current availability check karein.